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A company I was interested in just flew me out for an interview. It was on the other side of the country so they paid for my flight and hotel. Unfortunately, the interview went disastrously. I blew every question and I could tell that they didn't like me personally.



When I got to the airport for my return flight, I was unable to get my boarding pass. The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund. Despite my persistence, they assured me that there wasn't a mistake.



I called the company to tell them there was a mix-up, but they just told me they decided they would "going in a different direction". I told them I was fine that I didn't get the job, but I didn't have a flight home. They just repeated the same "going in a different direction" phrase and told me they couldn't help me. After calling back 3 or 4 times, they told me to stop harassing them.



I'm completely broke due to poor financial decisions (that's a different story), so I can't afford a last minute plane ticket. It doesn't help that this is a small airport, so ticket prices are high. So basically I've been stuck at the airport for the past 3 days. Yesterday, my credit card started being declined, so I've had to eat scraps from other customers.



Fortunately, I do have an existing job (albeit awful job) when I get home. And I finally got a friend of a friend to agree to pick me up and drive me to a Greyhound bus station in another town. So while I'm sitting in the airport waiting for him with a lot of time to think, I wanted to ask a few questions that have been spinning around my mind:




  • Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?

  • A specific legal question about recourse against this employer has been asked on Law SE

  • The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
    ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the
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A company I was interested in just flew me out for an interview. It was on the other side of the country so they paid for my flight and hotel. Unfortunately, the interview went disastrously. I blew every question and I could tell that they didn't like me personally.



When I got to the airport for my return flight, I was unable to get my boarding pass. The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund. Despite my persistence, they assured me that there wasn't a mistake.



I called the company to tell them there was a mix-up, but they just told me they decided they would "going in a different direction". I told them I was fine that I didn't get the job, but I didn't have a flight home. They just repeated the same "going in a different direction" phrase and told me they couldn't help me. After calling back 3 or 4 times, they told me to stop harassing them.



I'm completely broke due to poor financial decisions (that's a different story), so I can't afford a last minute plane ticket. It doesn't help that this is a small airport, so ticket prices are high. So basically I've been stuck at the airport for the past 3 days. Yesterday, my credit card started being declined, so I've had to eat scraps from other customers.



Fortunately, I do have an existing job (albeit awful job) when I get home. And I finally got a friend of a friend to agree to pick me up and drive me to a Greyhound bus station in another town. So while I'm sitting in the airport waiting for him with a lot of time to think, I wanted to ask a few questions that have been spinning around my mind:




  • Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?

  • A specific legal question about recourse against this employer has been asked on Law SE

  • The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
    ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the
    future)?










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A company I was interested in just flew me out for an interview. It was on the other side of the country so they paid for my flight and hotel. Unfortunately, the interview went disastrously. I blew every question and I could tell that they didn't like me personally.



When I got to the airport for my return flight, I was unable to get my boarding pass. The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund. Despite my persistence, they assured me that there wasn't a mistake.



I called the company to tell them there was a mix-up, but they just told me they decided they would "going in a different direction". I told them I was fine that I didn't get the job, but I didn't have a flight home. They just repeated the same "going in a different direction" phrase and told me they couldn't help me. After calling back 3 or 4 times, they told me to stop harassing them.



I'm completely broke due to poor financial decisions (that's a different story), so I can't afford a last minute plane ticket. It doesn't help that this is a small airport, so ticket prices are high. So basically I've been stuck at the airport for the past 3 days. Yesterday, my credit card started being declined, so I've had to eat scraps from other customers.



Fortunately, I do have an existing job (albeit awful job) when I get home. And I finally got a friend of a friend to agree to pick me up and drive me to a Greyhound bus station in another town. So while I'm sitting in the airport waiting for him with a lot of time to think, I wanted to ask a few questions that have been spinning around my mind:




  • Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?

  • A specific legal question about recourse against this employer has been asked on Law SE

  • The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
    ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the
    future)?










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A company I was interested in just flew me out for an interview. It was on the other side of the country so they paid for my flight and hotel. Unfortunately, the interview went disastrously. I blew every question and I could tell that they didn't like me personally.



When I got to the airport for my return flight, I was unable to get my boarding pass. The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund. Despite my persistence, they assured me that there wasn't a mistake.



I called the company to tell them there was a mix-up, but they just told me they decided they would "going in a different direction". I told them I was fine that I didn't get the job, but I didn't have a flight home. They just repeated the same "going in a different direction" phrase and told me they couldn't help me. After calling back 3 or 4 times, they told me to stop harassing them.



I'm completely broke due to poor financial decisions (that's a different story), so I can't afford a last minute plane ticket. It doesn't help that this is a small airport, so ticket prices are high. So basically I've been stuck at the airport for the past 3 days. Yesterday, my credit card started being declined, so I've had to eat scraps from other customers.



Fortunately, I do have an existing job (albeit awful job) when I get home. And I finally got a friend of a friend to agree to pick me up and drive me to a Greyhound bus station in another town. So while I'm sitting in the airport waiting for him with a lot of time to think, I wanted to ask a few questions that have been spinning around my mind:




  • Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?

  • A specific legal question about recourse against this employer has been asked on Law SE

  • The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
    ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the
    future)?







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No, this is completely unacceptable. Sure, the interview didn't work out, but screwing the candidate because of that is just so, so bad.




Do I have any recourse against this employer?




As a legal question which is going to depend on your jurisdiction and that of the employer. You'd need to talk to an actual lawyer.



As others have commented, independent of the legal aspect, "naming and shaming" is an option. I would very rarely advocate that behaviour, but in this case I think it's worth making other candidates aware of the risk they take interviewing with this company. However:




  1. Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first.

  2. Stack Exchange is not the platform on which to name and shame.



The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




You can ask, at which point there are two possibilities:




  1. This was actually a mistake and/or more sensible heads have prevailed at the company, in which case I'd hope they'd refund your expenses and the like.

  2. They seriously meant to do this, in which case I doubt they'll answer.


I honestly cannot think of anything which would cause me to act in this way towards a candidate; there's plenty you could say which would cause me to terminate the interview on the spot and walk you out the door, but I'm not going to screw someone in a way which would reflect so negatively on the company for any future candidates.






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    Yeah if someone said something offensive to me in an interview, I’d want them on the first flight out of town, not stranded at the airport calling me repeatedly.

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    @Michael Then the company screwed up whatever checks (phone interview etc) they should have done before the in person interview. I don't care if they felt "betrayed", acting like this is just so incredibly unprofessional I can't find language to describe it.

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    @Michael even if you have felt all your expectations betrayed, that is no excuse to have a poor (in the sense of performance) candidate screwed out and stranded in an airport. You (the company) invested money in interviewing this candidate, you must fulfil your duty and have him back home. Every suggestion on "phone screening first" is a very good advice for future interviews. The whole matter, if true, sounds like personal revenge against OP.

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    "Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first." Phoning them until they claim harassment would seem to have already met the criteria for this.

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    Finding out that someone lied on their CV (e.g. I had an interview candidate which claimed to have worked for 10 years with a technology and then during the interview found out that that simply was literally not possible) I could totally imagine some argument along the lines of "we - the company - went into this contract (the agreement to fly the candidate to us) based on fraud and thus the contract was invalid". Not implying that's the case here, but whatever happened must have been pretty bad.

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Be sure to post to GlassDoor, etc, but be absolutely sure to post only the exact truth, with nothing opinion based which could get you sued.



Do that - after you have found a lawyer; most will give a free consultation if they are fairly sure of a win, for which you probably have grounds (especially give that "had to eat scraps from other customers").



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Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?




No. As far as slimy tactics by employers go, this is pretty up there. If I were you I'd name & shame them on glassdoor and the like. If they're in any sort of public spotlight the PR from that will be disastrous. Nobody wants to interview much less work for a company with that track record.




Do I have any recourse against this employer?




Thats a question for a lawyer specializing in employment law. Try to find one that offers free consultations.




The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said
something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
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Even if you did, I have never heard of a employer doing this, and I'm pretty sure almost nobody actually does this. If you are an employer flying people out for interviews, you CAN NOT afford the bad publicity such a stunt will give you. Imagine what happens if a company like that invites me to an interview and I read THAT on a review site? Hard pass just on precaution.






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    Is this normal for an employer to do?




    I've swapped 'horror interview' stories with other developers and managers, but I've never heard of this happening.




    I must have said something offensive




    Maybe, but only blame yourself for blowing the interview.

    Don't blame yourself for the return plane ticket fiasco.



    This is likely a single person making a big mistake.

    The ones that covered for that mistake afterwards (I assume you talked to multiple people there) also seem culpable to me at this point, but IANAL.



    If you made offensive remarks during the interview I would want you not just out of my face, but also out of my town. I would abruptly (but politely) end the interview - it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight.



    If you totally lied about your experience, I might recommend to my company that we ask you to compensate us for the plane ticket and hotel. But I don't expect most companies ever would pursue it because of the bad PR that could come from it.






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      "it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight." This can't be emphasized enough.

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    • I also can't imagine the company getting anything close to full amount for canceling hours before the flight. Most airlines give you nothing for doing this. I couldn't find hard numbers on this though.

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    What the company did was in extremely poor taste, so much so, that I wonder if there might be something more happening, especially since you said you bombed the interview, both technically and personally.



    In your job application, were you truthful and honest?

    Did you lie or seriously exaggerate about your skills, experience or history?

    Was there a phone screen before the interview trip? Why did the phone screen go well enough to merit an interview then the interview went so poorly?



    Basically, if you were not the job applicant you said you are: If you lied on your resume, or had someone coach you through a phone screen, and then were discovered in the interview, I think the company would have a real right to be extremely pissed off, and possible a legal right due to fraud to claw back some of their expenditures.



    If you are confident everything on your end was honest and level, and you just had a really bad interview for a job that was a poor fit, then you probably have a strong legal case and the ability to create a PR and Recruiting Nightmare for the company.



    PS
    If you do decide to make it a Public Relations / Recruiting Situation, you might consider making it about the individuals involved as well as the Company. Companies can be faceless, nameless, bureaucratic beasts, but if you name the HR-recruiter and Hiring Manager involved, and make them responsible for their own decisions, it might be more effective. Check with a lawyer and be careful to avoid unjust defamation.



    Edit
    After awhile, another possibility that occurred to me is that this might be an effective way for someone from the company to embezzle money:. They look for candidates who have bombed, then cancel the return ticket, routing the refund to their own account rather than the company. The company wouldn't know that the candidate was left stranded, and whoever re-routed the money would have pocketed the cost of a refundable ticket!



    If you have only spoken to one person at the company so far, who kept repeating the same "other direction" line over and over, they may be the embezzler, hoping you will just go away. You need to speak to at least a second person at the company, and get an acknowledgement that the company really did cancel your ticket. Otherwise, this may be part of a much more serious crime.






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    • when you fly out a candidate, all the money is gone in one atomic transaction. it's never coming back or half back. even if the candidate lies/cheats/etc

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      @sudorm-rfslash What do you mean? In this case the company did get some money back. "The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund."

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      I should have added "from a sane manager's perspective"... yes of course IRL you can get the money back but you should think of it as inaccessible

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      even if the company ended the interview believing that they had been defrauded by the candidate, there is a proper recourse through the court system to reclaim their expenses. Vigilante justice certainly is not a justifiable response.

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      Note that the people at the company are people, too. They may have come to a conclusion after the OP left that they had been screwed over, and cancelled the return ticket as a knee-jerk reaction. The size of the company was not specified, nor the level of the position. I'm not arguing this is a good thing, by any means....

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    The only reasonable sitation that this would be a valid reaction to would be if you lied on your CV in an important point. I am not talking about a little exaggeration, not something like blowing all technical questions where you did not have as much experience as one would like, but misstating hard facts, like making up a PHD. Something like that would be fraud, and an employee would be obligated, should he become aware of such a situation to limit the damage to his employer.



    Even then, the behavior they showed is unprofessional - it should be clearly stated if that happens.



    In all other cases the behavior is completely unusual, unprofessional, and should be reason to ask a lawyer for help.






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      In fact, as HR should be booking the flights, but HR would not be conducting the interview, someone has gone out of their way to cancel that flight.
      It may even be that the "sponsor" has been fired and had their approval rights revoked.



      After all if they could not screen you out, their own bona fides are then highly suspect.



      This is actually quite hard to do and would have left a wide trail. That they used refundable tickets is significant.



      You bombed at the interview, was the position misrepresented or in any way "Bait and Switch"? Sometimes the copy for the job is garbage.



      Otherwise I would invoice for time and expense, and then sue for liquidated damages.



      OP should a lawyer first, they are very good at this kind of billing.






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        A returned ticket that had already been paid but cancelled, is more than reasonable if you committed a fraud. Didn't you mention you weren't able to answer a single interview question? I have my suspicion you lied on your resume. A very serious mislead on your resume.



        Yes. It's legally and morally alright for cancelling your ticket in this case,






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        • There are many reasons why an honest person (and perhaps a good worker, too) would fail every question, from being misrepresented by the recruiter, to being "bombed" by the prospective manager who changed their mind before the interview even started, to a serious last-minute sickness. Accusing someone in serious need because of a hyperbole they used sounds very wrong.

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        • @undercat EVERY single question??

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          @SmallChess depending on how many questions there are and how specialized, this can happen. It's the company's duty to do phone screens et al before flying someone out.

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        Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?




        No, this is completely unacceptable. Sure, the interview didn't work out, but screwing the candidate because of that is just so, so bad.




        Do I have any recourse against this employer?




        As a legal question which is going to depend on your jurisdiction and that of the employer. You'd need to talk to an actual lawyer.



        As others have commented, independent of the legal aspect, "naming and shaming" is an option. I would very rarely advocate that behaviour, but in this case I think it's worth making other candidates aware of the risk they take interviewing with this company. However:




        1. Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first.

        2. Stack Exchange is not the platform on which to name and shame.



        The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




        You can ask, at which point there are two possibilities:




        1. This was actually a mistake and/or more sensible heads have prevailed at the company, in which case I'd hope they'd refund your expenses and the like.

        2. They seriously meant to do this, in which case I doubt they'll answer.


        I honestly cannot think of anything which would cause me to act in this way towards a candidate; there's plenty you could say which would cause me to terminate the interview on the spot and walk you out the door, but I'm not going to screw someone in a way which would reflect so negatively on the company for any future candidates.






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          @Michael Then the company screwed up whatever checks (phone interview etc) they should have done before the in person interview. I don't care if they felt "betrayed", acting like this is just so incredibly unprofessional I can't find language to describe it.

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          @Michael even if you have felt all your expectations betrayed, that is no excuse to have a poor (in the sense of performance) candidate screwed out and stranded in an airport. You (the company) invested money in interviewing this candidate, you must fulfil your duty and have him back home. Every suggestion on "phone screening first" is a very good advice for future interviews. The whole matter, if true, sounds like personal revenge against OP.

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          "Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first." Phoning them until they claim harassment would seem to have already met the criteria for this.

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          Finding out that someone lied on their CV (e.g. I had an interview candidate which claimed to have worked for 10 years with a technology and then during the interview found out that that simply was literally not possible) I could totally imagine some argument along the lines of "we - the company - went into this contract (the agreement to fly the candidate to us) based on fraud and thus the contract was invalid". Not implying that's the case here, but whatever happened must have been pretty bad.

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        No, this is completely unacceptable. Sure, the interview didn't work out, but screwing the candidate because of that is just so, so bad.




        Do I have any recourse against this employer?




        As a legal question which is going to depend on your jurisdiction and that of the employer. You'd need to talk to an actual lawyer.



        As others have commented, independent of the legal aspect, "naming and shaming" is an option. I would very rarely advocate that behaviour, but in this case I think it's worth making other candidates aware of the risk they take interviewing with this company. However:




        1. Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first.

        2. Stack Exchange is not the platform on which to name and shame.



        The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




        You can ask, at which point there are two possibilities:




        1. This was actually a mistake and/or more sensible heads have prevailed at the company, in which case I'd hope they'd refund your expenses and the like.

        2. They seriously meant to do this, in which case I doubt they'll answer.


        I honestly cannot think of anything which would cause me to act in this way towards a candidate; there's plenty you could say which would cause me to terminate the interview on the spot and walk you out the door, but I'm not going to screw someone in a way which would reflect so negatively on the company for any future candidates.






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          @Michael Then the company screwed up whatever checks (phone interview etc) they should have done before the in person interview. I don't care if they felt "betrayed", acting like this is just so incredibly unprofessional I can't find language to describe it.

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          @Michael even if you have felt all your expectations betrayed, that is no excuse to have a poor (in the sense of performance) candidate screwed out and stranded in an airport. You (the company) invested money in interviewing this candidate, you must fulfil your duty and have him back home. Every suggestion on "phone screening first" is a very good advice for future interviews. The whole matter, if true, sounds like personal revenge against OP.

          – usr-local-ΕΨΗΕΛΩΝ
          17 hours ago






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          "Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first." Phoning them until they claim harassment would seem to have already met the criteria for this.

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          Finding out that someone lied on their CV (e.g. I had an interview candidate which claimed to have worked for 10 years with a technology and then during the interview found out that that simply was literally not possible) I could totally imagine some argument along the lines of "we - the company - went into this contract (the agreement to fly the candidate to us) based on fraud and thus the contract was invalid". Not implying that's the case here, but whatever happened must have been pretty bad.

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        Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?




        No, this is completely unacceptable. Sure, the interview didn't work out, but screwing the candidate because of that is just so, so bad.




        Do I have any recourse against this employer?




        As a legal question which is going to depend on your jurisdiction and that of the employer. You'd need to talk to an actual lawyer.



        As others have commented, independent of the legal aspect, "naming and shaming" is an option. I would very rarely advocate that behaviour, but in this case I think it's worth making other candidates aware of the risk they take interviewing with this company. However:




        1. Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first.

        2. Stack Exchange is not the platform on which to name and shame.



        The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




        You can ask, at which point there are two possibilities:




        1. This was actually a mistake and/or more sensible heads have prevailed at the company, in which case I'd hope they'd refund your expenses and the like.

        2. They seriously meant to do this, in which case I doubt they'll answer.


        I honestly cannot think of anything which would cause me to act in this way towards a candidate; there's plenty you could say which would cause me to terminate the interview on the spot and walk you out the door, but I'm not going to screw someone in a way which would reflect so negatively on the company for any future candidates.






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        Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?




        No, this is completely unacceptable. Sure, the interview didn't work out, but screwing the candidate because of that is just so, so bad.




        Do I have any recourse against this employer?




        As a legal question which is going to depend on your jurisdiction and that of the employer. You'd need to talk to an actual lawyer.



        As others have commented, independent of the legal aspect, "naming and shaming" is an option. I would very rarely advocate that behaviour, but in this case I think it's worth making other candidates aware of the risk they take interviewing with this company. However:




        1. Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first.

        2. Stack Exchange is not the platform on which to name and shame.



        The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




        You can ask, at which point there are two possibilities:




        1. This was actually a mistake and/or more sensible heads have prevailed at the company, in which case I'd hope they'd refund your expenses and the like.

        2. They seriously meant to do this, in which case I doubt they'll answer.


        I honestly cannot think of anything which would cause me to act in this way towards a candidate; there's plenty you could say which would cause me to terminate the interview on the spot and walk you out the door, but I'm not going to screw someone in a way which would reflect so negatively on the company for any future candidates.







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          Yeah if someone said something offensive to me in an interview, I’d want them on the first flight out of town, not stranded at the airport calling me repeatedly.

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          @Michael Then the company screwed up whatever checks (phone interview etc) they should have done before the in person interview. I don't care if they felt "betrayed", acting like this is just so incredibly unprofessional I can't find language to describe it.

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          @Michael even if you have felt all your expectations betrayed, that is no excuse to have a poor (in the sense of performance) candidate screwed out and stranded in an airport. You (the company) invested money in interviewing this candidate, you must fulfil your duty and have him back home. Every suggestion on "phone screening first" is a very good advice for future interviews. The whole matter, if true, sounds like personal revenge against OP.

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          17 hours ago






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          "Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first." Phoning them until they claim harassment would seem to have already met the criteria for this.

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          Finding out that someone lied on their CV (e.g. I had an interview candidate which claimed to have worked for 10 years with a technology and then during the interview found out that that simply was literally not possible) I could totally imagine some argument along the lines of "we - the company - went into this contract (the agreement to fly the candidate to us) based on fraud and thus the contract was invalid". Not implying that's the case here, but whatever happened must have been pretty bad.

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          Yeah if someone said something offensive to me in an interview, I’d want them on the first flight out of town, not stranded at the airport calling me repeatedly.

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          @Michael Then the company screwed up whatever checks (phone interview etc) they should have done before the in person interview. I don't care if they felt "betrayed", acting like this is just so incredibly unprofessional I can't find language to describe it.

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          @Michael even if you have felt all your expectations betrayed, that is no excuse to have a poor (in the sense of performance) candidate screwed out and stranded in an airport. You (the company) invested money in interviewing this candidate, you must fulfil your duty and have him back home. Every suggestion on "phone screening first" is a very good advice for future interviews. The whole matter, if true, sounds like personal revenge against OP.

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          17 hours ago






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          "Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first." Phoning them until they claim harassment would seem to have already met the criteria for this.

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          Finding out that someone lied on their CV (e.g. I had an interview candidate which claimed to have worked for 10 years with a technology and then during the interview found out that that simply was literally not possible) I could totally imagine some argument along the lines of "we - the company - went into this contract (the agreement to fly the candidate to us) based on fraud and thus the contract was invalid". Not implying that's the case here, but whatever happened must have been pretty bad.

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        Yeah if someone said something offensive to me in an interview, I’d want them on the first flight out of town, not stranded at the airport calling me repeatedly.

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        @Michael Then the company screwed up whatever checks (phone interview etc) they should have done before the in person interview. I don't care if they felt "betrayed", acting like this is just so incredibly unprofessional I can't find language to describe it.

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        @Michael Then the company screwed up whatever checks (phone interview etc) they should have done before the in person interview. I don't care if they felt "betrayed", acting like this is just so incredibly unprofessional I can't find language to describe it.

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        @Michael even if you have felt all your expectations betrayed, that is no excuse to have a poor (in the sense of performance) candidate screwed out and stranded in an airport. You (the company) invested money in interviewing this candidate, you must fulfil your duty and have him back home. Every suggestion on "phone screening first" is a very good advice for future interviews. The whole matter, if true, sounds like personal revenge against OP.

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        @Michael even if you have felt all your expectations betrayed, that is no excuse to have a poor (in the sense of performance) candidate screwed out and stranded in an airport. You (the company) invested money in interviewing this candidate, you must fulfil your duty and have him back home. Every suggestion on "phone screening first" is a very good advice for future interviews. The whole matter, if true, sounds like personal revenge against OP.

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        "Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first." Phoning them until they claim harassment would seem to have already met the criteria for this.

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        "Make at least a nominal attempt to reconcile things with the company first." Phoning them until they claim harassment would seem to have already met the criteria for this.

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        Finding out that someone lied on their CV (e.g. I had an interview candidate which claimed to have worked for 10 years with a technology and then during the interview found out that that simply was literally not possible) I could totally imagine some argument along the lines of "we - the company - went into this contract (the agreement to fly the candidate to us) based on fraud and thus the contract was invalid". Not implying that's the case here, but whatever happened must have been pretty bad.

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        Finding out that someone lied on their CV (e.g. I had an interview candidate which claimed to have worked for 10 years with a technology and then during the interview found out that that simply was literally not possible) I could totally imagine some argument along the lines of "we - the company - went into this contract (the agreement to fly the candidate to us) based on fraud and thus the contract was invalid". Not implying that's the case here, but whatever happened must have been pretty bad.

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        Be sure to post to GlassDoor, etc, but be absolutely sure to post only the exact truth, with nothing opinion based which could get you sued.



        Do that - after you have found a lawyer; most will give a free consultation if they are fairly sure of a win, for which you probably have grounds (especially give that "had to eat scraps from other customers").



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        Be sure to post to GlassDoor, etc, but be absolutely sure to post only the exact truth, with nothing opinion based which could get you sued.



        Do that - after you have found a lawyer; most will give a free consultation if they are fairly sure of a win, for which you probably have grounds (especially give that "had to eat scraps from other customers").



        IANA, but you might first ask a legal opinion on our sister site https://law.stackexchange.com/






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        Be sure to post to GlassDoor, etc, but be absolutely sure to post only the exact truth, with nothing opinion based which could get you sued.



        Do that - after you have found a lawyer; most will give a free consultation if they are fairly sure of a win, for which you probably have grounds (especially give that "had to eat scraps from other customers").



        IANA, but you might first ask a legal opinion on our sister site https://law.stackexchange.com/






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        Be sure to post to GlassDoor, etc, but be absolutely sure to post only the exact truth, with nothing opinion based which could get you sued.



        Do that - after you have found a lawyer; most will give a free consultation if they are fairly sure of a win, for which you probably have grounds (especially give that "had to eat scraps from other customers").



        IANA, but you might first ask a legal opinion on our sister site https://law.stackexchange.com/







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        Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?




        No. As far as slimy tactics by employers go, this is pretty up there. If I were you I'd name & shame them on glassdoor and the like. If they're in any sort of public spotlight the PR from that will be disastrous. Nobody wants to interview much less work for a company with that track record.




        Do I have any recourse against this employer?




        Thats a question for a lawyer specializing in employment law. Try to find one that offers free consultations.




        The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said
        something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
        ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




        Even if you did, I have never heard of a employer doing this, and I'm pretty sure almost nobody actually does this. If you are an employer flying people out for interviews, you CAN NOT afford the bad publicity such a stunt will give you. Imagine what happens if a company like that invites me to an interview and I read THAT on a review site? Hard pass just on precaution.






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          Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?




          No. As far as slimy tactics by employers go, this is pretty up there. If I were you I'd name & shame them on glassdoor and the like. If they're in any sort of public spotlight the PR from that will be disastrous. Nobody wants to interview much less work for a company with that track record.




          Do I have any recourse against this employer?




          Thats a question for a lawyer specializing in employment law. Try to find one that offers free consultations.




          The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said
          something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
          ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




          Even if you did, I have never heard of a employer doing this, and I'm pretty sure almost nobody actually does this. If you are an employer flying people out for interviews, you CAN NOT afford the bad publicity such a stunt will give you. Imagine what happens if a company like that invites me to an interview and I read THAT on a review site? Hard pass just on precaution.






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            52








            Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?




            No. As far as slimy tactics by employers go, this is pretty up there. If I were you I'd name & shame them on glassdoor and the like. If they're in any sort of public spotlight the PR from that will be disastrous. Nobody wants to interview much less work for a company with that track record.




            Do I have any recourse against this employer?




            Thats a question for a lawyer specializing in employment law. Try to find one that offers free consultations.




            The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said
            something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
            ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




            Even if you did, I have never heard of a employer doing this, and I'm pretty sure almost nobody actually does this. If you are an employer flying people out for interviews, you CAN NOT afford the bad publicity such a stunt will give you. Imagine what happens if a company like that invites me to an interview and I read THAT on a review site? Hard pass just on precaution.






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            Seriously, what the heck? Is this normal for an employer to do?




            No. As far as slimy tactics by employers go, this is pretty up there. If I were you I'd name & shame them on glassdoor and the like. If they're in any sort of public spotlight the PR from that will be disastrous. Nobody wants to interview much less work for a company with that track record.




            Do I have any recourse against this employer?




            Thats a question for a lawyer specializing in employment law. Try to find one that offers free consultations.




            The more I think about, the more I'm thinking I must have said
            something offensive to somebody in an interview. Is there any way to
            ask them what I said (so that I can avoid this mistake in the future)?




            Even if you did, I have never heard of a employer doing this, and I'm pretty sure almost nobody actually does this. If you are an employer flying people out for interviews, you CAN NOT afford the bad publicity such a stunt will give you. Imagine what happens if a company like that invites me to an interview and I read THAT on a review site? Hard pass just on precaution.







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                Is this normal for an employer to do?




                I've swapped 'horror interview' stories with other developers and managers, but I've never heard of this happening.




                I must have said something offensive




                Maybe, but only blame yourself for blowing the interview.

                Don't blame yourself for the return plane ticket fiasco.



                This is likely a single person making a big mistake.

                The ones that covered for that mistake afterwards (I assume you talked to multiple people there) also seem culpable to me at this point, but IANAL.



                If you made offensive remarks during the interview I would want you not just out of my face, but also out of my town. I would abruptly (but politely) end the interview - it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight.



                If you totally lied about your experience, I might recommend to my company that we ask you to compensate us for the plane ticket and hotel. But I don't expect most companies ever would pursue it because of the bad PR that could come from it.






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                  "it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight." This can't be emphasized enough.

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                • I also can't imagine the company getting anything close to full amount for canceling hours before the flight. Most airlines give you nothing for doing this. I couldn't find hard numbers on this though.

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                Is this normal for an employer to do?




                I've swapped 'horror interview' stories with other developers and managers, but I've never heard of this happening.




                I must have said something offensive




                Maybe, but only blame yourself for blowing the interview.

                Don't blame yourself for the return plane ticket fiasco.



                This is likely a single person making a big mistake.

                The ones that covered for that mistake afterwards (I assume you talked to multiple people there) also seem culpable to me at this point, but IANAL.



                If you made offensive remarks during the interview I would want you not just out of my face, but also out of my town. I would abruptly (but politely) end the interview - it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight.



                If you totally lied about your experience, I might recommend to my company that we ask you to compensate us for the plane ticket and hotel. But I don't expect most companies ever would pursue it because of the bad PR that could come from it.






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                  "it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight." This can't be emphasized enough.

                  – bruglesco
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                • I also can't imagine the company getting anything close to full amount for canceling hours before the flight. Most airlines give you nothing for doing this. I couldn't find hard numbers on this though.

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                Is this normal for an employer to do?




                I've swapped 'horror interview' stories with other developers and managers, but I've never heard of this happening.




                I must have said something offensive




                Maybe, but only blame yourself for blowing the interview.

                Don't blame yourself for the return plane ticket fiasco.



                This is likely a single person making a big mistake.

                The ones that covered for that mistake afterwards (I assume you talked to multiple people there) also seem culpable to me at this point, but IANAL.



                If you made offensive remarks during the interview I would want you not just out of my face, but also out of my town. I would abruptly (but politely) end the interview - it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight.



                If you totally lied about your experience, I might recommend to my company that we ask you to compensate us for the plane ticket and hotel. But I don't expect most companies ever would pursue it because of the bad PR that could come from it.






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                Is this normal for an employer to do?




                I've swapped 'horror interview' stories with other developers and managers, but I've never heard of this happening.




                I must have said something offensive




                Maybe, but only blame yourself for blowing the interview.

                Don't blame yourself for the return plane ticket fiasco.



                This is likely a single person making a big mistake.

                The ones that covered for that mistake afterwards (I assume you talked to multiple people there) also seem culpable to me at this point, but IANAL.



                If you made offensive remarks during the interview I would want you not just out of my face, but also out of my town. I would abruptly (but politely) end the interview - it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight.



                If you totally lied about your experience, I might recommend to my company that we ask you to compensate us for the plane ticket and hotel. But I don't expect most companies ever would pursue it because of the bad PR that could come from it.







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                  "it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight." This can't be emphasized enough.

                  – bruglesco
                  5 hours ago











                • I also can't imagine the company getting anything close to full amount for canceling hours before the flight. Most airlines give you nothing for doing this. I couldn't find hard numbers on this though.

                  – Nelson
                  3 hours ago














                • 3





                  "it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight." This can't be emphasized enough.

                  – bruglesco
                  5 hours ago











                • I also can't imagine the company getting anything close to full amount for canceling hours before the flight. Most airlines give you nothing for doing this. I couldn't find hard numbers on this though.

                  – Nelson
                  3 hours ago








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                3





                "it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight." This can't be emphasized enough.

                – bruglesco
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                "it wouldn't occur to me to cancel your return flight." This can't be emphasized enough.

                – bruglesco
                5 hours ago













                I also can't imagine the company getting anything close to full amount for canceling hours before the flight. Most airlines give you nothing for doing this. I couldn't find hard numbers on this though.

                – Nelson
                3 hours ago





                I also can't imagine the company getting anything close to full amount for canceling hours before the flight. Most airlines give you nothing for doing this. I couldn't find hard numbers on this though.

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                What the company did was in extremely poor taste, so much so, that I wonder if there might be something more happening, especially since you said you bombed the interview, both technically and personally.



                In your job application, were you truthful and honest?

                Did you lie or seriously exaggerate about your skills, experience or history?

                Was there a phone screen before the interview trip? Why did the phone screen go well enough to merit an interview then the interview went so poorly?



                Basically, if you were not the job applicant you said you are: If you lied on your resume, or had someone coach you through a phone screen, and then were discovered in the interview, I think the company would have a real right to be extremely pissed off, and possible a legal right due to fraud to claw back some of their expenditures.



                If you are confident everything on your end was honest and level, and you just had a really bad interview for a job that was a poor fit, then you probably have a strong legal case and the ability to create a PR and Recruiting Nightmare for the company.



                PS
                If you do decide to make it a Public Relations / Recruiting Situation, you might consider making it about the individuals involved as well as the Company. Companies can be faceless, nameless, bureaucratic beasts, but if you name the HR-recruiter and Hiring Manager involved, and make them responsible for their own decisions, it might be more effective. Check with a lawyer and be careful to avoid unjust defamation.



                Edit
                After awhile, another possibility that occurred to me is that this might be an effective way for someone from the company to embezzle money:. They look for candidates who have bombed, then cancel the return ticket, routing the refund to their own account rather than the company. The company wouldn't know that the candidate was left stranded, and whoever re-routed the money would have pocketed the cost of a refundable ticket!



                If you have only spoken to one person at the company so far, who kept repeating the same "other direction" line over and over, they may be the embezzler, hoping you will just go away. You need to speak to at least a second person at the company, and get an acknowledgement that the company really did cancel your ticket. Otherwise, this may be part of a much more serious crime.






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                • when you fly out a candidate, all the money is gone in one atomic transaction. it's never coming back or half back. even if the candidate lies/cheats/etc

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                  @sudorm-rfslash What do you mean? In this case the company did get some money back. "The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund."

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                  I should have added "from a sane manager's perspective"... yes of course IRL you can get the money back but you should think of it as inaccessible

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                  even if the company ended the interview believing that they had been defrauded by the candidate, there is a proper recourse through the court system to reclaim their expenses. Vigilante justice certainly is not a justifiable response.

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                  Note that the people at the company are people, too. They may have come to a conclusion after the OP left that they had been screwed over, and cancelled the return ticket as a knee-jerk reaction. The size of the company was not specified, nor the level of the position. I'm not arguing this is a good thing, by any means....

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                What the company did was in extremely poor taste, so much so, that I wonder if there might be something more happening, especially since you said you bombed the interview, both technically and personally.



                In your job application, were you truthful and honest?

                Did you lie or seriously exaggerate about your skills, experience or history?

                Was there a phone screen before the interview trip? Why did the phone screen go well enough to merit an interview then the interview went so poorly?



                Basically, if you were not the job applicant you said you are: If you lied on your resume, or had someone coach you through a phone screen, and then were discovered in the interview, I think the company would have a real right to be extremely pissed off, and possible a legal right due to fraud to claw back some of their expenditures.



                If you are confident everything on your end was honest and level, and you just had a really bad interview for a job that was a poor fit, then you probably have a strong legal case and the ability to create a PR and Recruiting Nightmare for the company.



                PS
                If you do decide to make it a Public Relations / Recruiting Situation, you might consider making it about the individuals involved as well as the Company. Companies can be faceless, nameless, bureaucratic beasts, but if you name the HR-recruiter and Hiring Manager involved, and make them responsible for their own decisions, it might be more effective. Check with a lawyer and be careful to avoid unjust defamation.



                Edit
                After awhile, another possibility that occurred to me is that this might be an effective way for someone from the company to embezzle money:. They look for candidates who have bombed, then cancel the return ticket, routing the refund to their own account rather than the company. The company wouldn't know that the candidate was left stranded, and whoever re-routed the money would have pocketed the cost of a refundable ticket!



                If you have only spoken to one person at the company so far, who kept repeating the same "other direction" line over and over, they may be the embezzler, hoping you will just go away. You need to speak to at least a second person at the company, and get an acknowledgement that the company really did cancel your ticket. Otherwise, this may be part of a much more serious crime.






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                • when you fly out a candidate, all the money is gone in one atomic transaction. it's never coming back or half back. even if the candidate lies/cheats/etc

                  – sudo rm -rf slash
                  16 hours ago






                • 6





                  @sudorm-rfslash What do you mean? In this case the company did get some money back. "The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund."

                  – David Mulder
                  16 hours ago






                • 3





                  I should have added "from a sane manager's perspective"... yes of course IRL you can get the money back but you should think of it as inaccessible

                  – sudo rm -rf slash
                  15 hours ago






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                  even if the company ended the interview believing that they had been defrauded by the candidate, there is a proper recourse through the court system to reclaim their expenses. Vigilante justice certainly is not a justifiable response.

                  – Tom
                  15 hours ago






                • 2





                  Note that the people at the company are people, too. They may have come to a conclusion after the OP left that they had been screwed over, and cancelled the return ticket as a knee-jerk reaction. The size of the company was not specified, nor the level of the position. I'm not arguing this is a good thing, by any means....

                  – RDFozz
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                What the company did was in extremely poor taste, so much so, that I wonder if there might be something more happening, especially since you said you bombed the interview, both technically and personally.



                In your job application, were you truthful and honest?

                Did you lie or seriously exaggerate about your skills, experience or history?

                Was there a phone screen before the interview trip? Why did the phone screen go well enough to merit an interview then the interview went so poorly?



                Basically, if you were not the job applicant you said you are: If you lied on your resume, or had someone coach you through a phone screen, and then were discovered in the interview, I think the company would have a real right to be extremely pissed off, and possible a legal right due to fraud to claw back some of their expenditures.



                If you are confident everything on your end was honest and level, and you just had a really bad interview for a job that was a poor fit, then you probably have a strong legal case and the ability to create a PR and Recruiting Nightmare for the company.



                PS
                If you do decide to make it a Public Relations / Recruiting Situation, you might consider making it about the individuals involved as well as the Company. Companies can be faceless, nameless, bureaucratic beasts, but if you name the HR-recruiter and Hiring Manager involved, and make them responsible for their own decisions, it might be more effective. Check with a lawyer and be careful to avoid unjust defamation.



                Edit
                After awhile, another possibility that occurred to me is that this might be an effective way for someone from the company to embezzle money:. They look for candidates who have bombed, then cancel the return ticket, routing the refund to their own account rather than the company. The company wouldn't know that the candidate was left stranded, and whoever re-routed the money would have pocketed the cost of a refundable ticket!



                If you have only spoken to one person at the company so far, who kept repeating the same "other direction" line over and over, they may be the embezzler, hoping you will just go away. You need to speak to at least a second person at the company, and get an acknowledgement that the company really did cancel your ticket. Otherwise, this may be part of a much more serious crime.






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                What the company did was in extremely poor taste, so much so, that I wonder if there might be something more happening, especially since you said you bombed the interview, both technically and personally.



                In your job application, were you truthful and honest?

                Did you lie or seriously exaggerate about your skills, experience or history?

                Was there a phone screen before the interview trip? Why did the phone screen go well enough to merit an interview then the interview went so poorly?



                Basically, if you were not the job applicant you said you are: If you lied on your resume, or had someone coach you through a phone screen, and then were discovered in the interview, I think the company would have a real right to be extremely pissed off, and possible a legal right due to fraud to claw back some of their expenditures.



                If you are confident everything on your end was honest and level, and you just had a really bad interview for a job that was a poor fit, then you probably have a strong legal case and the ability to create a PR and Recruiting Nightmare for the company.



                PS
                If you do decide to make it a Public Relations / Recruiting Situation, you might consider making it about the individuals involved as well as the Company. Companies can be faceless, nameless, bureaucratic beasts, but if you name the HR-recruiter and Hiring Manager involved, and make them responsible for their own decisions, it might be more effective. Check with a lawyer and be careful to avoid unjust defamation.



                Edit
                After awhile, another possibility that occurred to me is that this might be an effective way for someone from the company to embezzle money:. They look for candidates who have bombed, then cancel the return ticket, routing the refund to their own account rather than the company. The company wouldn't know that the candidate was left stranded, and whoever re-routed the money would have pocketed the cost of a refundable ticket!



                If you have only spoken to one person at the company so far, who kept repeating the same "other direction" line over and over, they may be the embezzler, hoping you will just go away. You need to speak to at least a second person at the company, and get an acknowledgement that the company really did cancel your ticket. Otherwise, this may be part of a much more serious crime.







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                abelenkyabelenky

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                • when you fly out a candidate, all the money is gone in one atomic transaction. it's never coming back or half back. even if the candidate lies/cheats/etc

                  – sudo rm -rf slash
                  16 hours ago






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                  @sudorm-rfslash What do you mean? In this case the company did get some money back. "The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund."

                  – David Mulder
                  16 hours ago






                • 3





                  I should have added "from a sane manager's perspective"... yes of course IRL you can get the money back but you should think of it as inaccessible

                  – sudo rm -rf slash
                  15 hours ago






                • 8





                  even if the company ended the interview believing that they had been defrauded by the candidate, there is a proper recourse through the court system to reclaim their expenses. Vigilante justice certainly is not a justifiable response.

                  – Tom
                  15 hours ago






                • 2





                  Note that the people at the company are people, too. They may have come to a conclusion after the OP left that they had been screwed over, and cancelled the return ticket as a knee-jerk reaction. The size of the company was not specified, nor the level of the position. I'm not arguing this is a good thing, by any means....

                  – RDFozz
                  12 hours ago





















                • when you fly out a candidate, all the money is gone in one atomic transaction. it's never coming back or half back. even if the candidate lies/cheats/etc

                  – sudo rm -rf slash
                  16 hours ago






                • 6





                  @sudorm-rfslash What do you mean? In this case the company did get some money back. "The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund."

                  – David Mulder
                  16 hours ago






                • 3





                  I should have added "from a sane manager's perspective"... yes of course IRL you can get the money back but you should think of it as inaccessible

                  – sudo rm -rf slash
                  15 hours ago






                • 8





                  even if the company ended the interview believing that they had been defrauded by the candidate, there is a proper recourse through the court system to reclaim their expenses. Vigilante justice certainly is not a justifiable response.

                  – Tom
                  15 hours ago






                • 2





                  Note that the people at the company are people, too. They may have come to a conclusion after the OP left that they had been screwed over, and cancelled the return ticket as a knee-jerk reaction. The size of the company was not specified, nor the level of the position. I'm not arguing this is a good thing, by any means....

                  – RDFozz
                  12 hours ago



















                when you fly out a candidate, all the money is gone in one atomic transaction. it's never coming back or half back. even if the candidate lies/cheats/etc

                – sudo rm -rf slash
                16 hours ago





                when you fly out a candidate, all the money is gone in one atomic transaction. it's never coming back or half back. even if the candidate lies/cheats/etc

                – sudo rm -rf slash
                16 hours ago




                6




                6





                @sudorm-rfslash What do you mean? In this case the company did get some money back. "The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund."

                – David Mulder
                16 hours ago





                @sudorm-rfslash What do you mean? In this case the company did get some money back. "The agent told me that my ticket was cancelled by the buyer for a partial refund."

                – David Mulder
                16 hours ago




                3




                3





                I should have added "from a sane manager's perspective"... yes of course IRL you can get the money back but you should think of it as inaccessible

                – sudo rm -rf slash
                15 hours ago





                I should have added "from a sane manager's perspective"... yes of course IRL you can get the money back but you should think of it as inaccessible

                – sudo rm -rf slash
                15 hours ago




                8




                8





                even if the company ended the interview believing that they had been defrauded by the candidate, there is a proper recourse through the court system to reclaim their expenses. Vigilante justice certainly is not a justifiable response.

                – Tom
                15 hours ago





                even if the company ended the interview believing that they had been defrauded by the candidate, there is a proper recourse through the court system to reclaim their expenses. Vigilante justice certainly is not a justifiable response.

                – Tom
                15 hours ago




                2




                2





                Note that the people at the company are people, too. They may have come to a conclusion after the OP left that they had been screwed over, and cancelled the return ticket as a knee-jerk reaction. The size of the company was not specified, nor the level of the position. I'm not arguing this is a good thing, by any means....

                – RDFozz
                12 hours ago







                Note that the people at the company are people, too. They may have come to a conclusion after the OP left that they had been screwed over, and cancelled the return ticket as a knee-jerk reaction. The size of the company was not specified, nor the level of the position. I'm not arguing this is a good thing, by any means....

                – RDFozz
                12 hours ago













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                The only reasonable sitation that this would be a valid reaction to would be if you lied on your CV in an important point. I am not talking about a little exaggeration, not something like blowing all technical questions where you did not have as much experience as one would like, but misstating hard facts, like making up a PHD. Something like that would be fraud, and an employee would be obligated, should he become aware of such a situation to limit the damage to his employer.



                Even then, the behavior they showed is unprofessional - it should be clearly stated if that happens.



                In all other cases the behavior is completely unusual, unprofessional, and should be reason to ask a lawyer for help.






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                  The only reasonable sitation that this would be a valid reaction to would be if you lied on your CV in an important point. I am not talking about a little exaggeration, not something like blowing all technical questions where you did not have as much experience as one would like, but misstating hard facts, like making up a PHD. Something like that would be fraud, and an employee would be obligated, should he become aware of such a situation to limit the damage to his employer.



                  Even then, the behavior they showed is unprofessional - it should be clearly stated if that happens.



                  In all other cases the behavior is completely unusual, unprofessional, and should be reason to ask a lawyer for help.






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                    The only reasonable sitation that this would be a valid reaction to would be if you lied on your CV in an important point. I am not talking about a little exaggeration, not something like blowing all technical questions where you did not have as much experience as one would like, but misstating hard facts, like making up a PHD. Something like that would be fraud, and an employee would be obligated, should he become aware of such a situation to limit the damage to his employer.



                    Even then, the behavior they showed is unprofessional - it should be clearly stated if that happens.



                    In all other cases the behavior is completely unusual, unprofessional, and should be reason to ask a lawyer for help.






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                    The only reasonable sitation that this would be a valid reaction to would be if you lied on your CV in an important point. I am not talking about a little exaggeration, not something like blowing all technical questions where you did not have as much experience as one would like, but misstating hard facts, like making up a PHD. Something like that would be fraud, and an employee would be obligated, should he become aware of such a situation to limit the damage to his employer.



                    Even then, the behavior they showed is unprofessional - it should be clearly stated if that happens.



                    In all other cases the behavior is completely unusual, unprofessional, and should be reason to ask a lawyer for help.







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                    answered 7 hours ago









                    SaschaSascha

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                        In fact, as HR should be booking the flights, but HR would not be conducting the interview, someone has gone out of their way to cancel that flight.
                        It may even be that the "sponsor" has been fired and had their approval rights revoked.



                        After all if they could not screen you out, their own bona fides are then highly suspect.



                        This is actually quite hard to do and would have left a wide trail. That they used refundable tickets is significant.



                        You bombed at the interview, was the position misrepresented or in any way "Bait and Switch"? Sometimes the copy for the job is garbage.



                        Otherwise I would invoice for time and expense, and then sue for liquidated damages.



                        OP should a lawyer first, they are very good at this kind of billing.






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                          In fact, as HR should be booking the flights, but HR would not be conducting the interview, someone has gone out of their way to cancel that flight.
                          It may even be that the "sponsor" has been fired and had their approval rights revoked.



                          After all if they could not screen you out, their own bona fides are then highly suspect.



                          This is actually quite hard to do and would have left a wide trail. That they used refundable tickets is significant.



                          You bombed at the interview, was the position misrepresented or in any way "Bait and Switch"? Sometimes the copy for the job is garbage.



                          Otherwise I would invoice for time and expense, and then sue for liquidated damages.



                          OP should a lawyer first, they are very good at this kind of billing.






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                            In fact, as HR should be booking the flights, but HR would not be conducting the interview, someone has gone out of their way to cancel that flight.
                            It may even be that the "sponsor" has been fired and had their approval rights revoked.



                            After all if they could not screen you out, their own bona fides are then highly suspect.



                            This is actually quite hard to do and would have left a wide trail. That they used refundable tickets is significant.



                            You bombed at the interview, was the position misrepresented or in any way "Bait and Switch"? Sometimes the copy for the job is garbage.



                            Otherwise I would invoice for time and expense, and then sue for liquidated damages.



                            OP should a lawyer first, they are very good at this kind of billing.






                            share|improve this answer













                            In fact, as HR should be booking the flights, but HR would not be conducting the interview, someone has gone out of their way to cancel that flight.
                            It may even be that the "sponsor" has been fired and had their approval rights revoked.



                            After all if they could not screen you out, their own bona fides are then highly suspect.



                            This is actually quite hard to do and would have left a wide trail. That they used refundable tickets is significant.



                            You bombed at the interview, was the position misrepresented or in any way "Bait and Switch"? Sometimes the copy for the job is garbage.



                            Otherwise I would invoice for time and expense, and then sue for liquidated damages.



                            OP should a lawyer first, they are very good at this kind of billing.







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                            answered 5 hours ago









                            mckenzmmckenzm

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                                A returned ticket that had already been paid but cancelled, is more than reasonable if you committed a fraud. Didn't you mention you weren't able to answer a single interview question? I have my suspicion you lied on your resume. A very serious mislead on your resume.



                                Yes. It's legally and morally alright for cancelling your ticket in this case,






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                                • There are many reasons why an honest person (and perhaps a good worker, too) would fail every question, from being misrepresented by the recruiter, to being "bombed" by the prospective manager who changed their mind before the interview even started, to a serious last-minute sickness. Accusing someone in serious need because of a hyperbole they used sounds very wrong.

                                  – undercat
                                  13 mins ago











                                • @undercat EVERY single question??

                                  – SmallChess
                                  13 mins ago






                                • 1





                                  @SmallChess depending on how many questions there are and how specialized, this can happen. It's the company's duty to do phone screens et al before flying someone out.

                                  – Magisch
                                  9 mins ago
















                                -1














                                A returned ticket that had already been paid but cancelled, is more than reasonable if you committed a fraud. Didn't you mention you weren't able to answer a single interview question? I have my suspicion you lied on your resume. A very serious mislead on your resume.



                                Yes. It's legally and morally alright for cancelling your ticket in this case,






                                share|improve this answer
























                                • There are many reasons why an honest person (and perhaps a good worker, too) would fail every question, from being misrepresented by the recruiter, to being "bombed" by the prospective manager who changed their mind before the interview even started, to a serious last-minute sickness. Accusing someone in serious need because of a hyperbole they used sounds very wrong.

                                  – undercat
                                  13 mins ago











                                • @undercat EVERY single question??

                                  – SmallChess
                                  13 mins ago






                                • 1





                                  @SmallChess depending on how many questions there are and how specialized, this can happen. It's the company's duty to do phone screens et al before flying someone out.

                                  – Magisch
                                  9 mins ago














                                -1












                                -1








                                -1







                                A returned ticket that had already been paid but cancelled, is more than reasonable if you committed a fraud. Didn't you mention you weren't able to answer a single interview question? I have my suspicion you lied on your resume. A very serious mislead on your resume.



                                Yes. It's legally and morally alright for cancelling your ticket in this case,






                                share|improve this answer













                                A returned ticket that had already been paid but cancelled, is more than reasonable if you committed a fraud. Didn't you mention you weren't able to answer a single interview question? I have my suspicion you lied on your resume. A very serious mislead on your resume.



                                Yes. It's legally and morally alright for cancelling your ticket in this case,







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                                answered 2 hours ago









                                SmallChessSmallChess

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                                • There are many reasons why an honest person (and perhaps a good worker, too) would fail every question, from being misrepresented by the recruiter, to being "bombed" by the prospective manager who changed their mind before the interview even started, to a serious last-minute sickness. Accusing someone in serious need because of a hyperbole they used sounds very wrong.

                                  – undercat
                                  13 mins ago











                                • @undercat EVERY single question??

                                  – SmallChess
                                  13 mins ago






                                • 1





                                  @SmallChess depending on how many questions there are and how specialized, this can happen. It's the company's duty to do phone screens et al before flying someone out.

                                  – Magisch
                                  9 mins ago



















                                • There are many reasons why an honest person (and perhaps a good worker, too) would fail every question, from being misrepresented by the recruiter, to being "bombed" by the prospective manager who changed their mind before the interview even started, to a serious last-minute sickness. Accusing someone in serious need because of a hyperbole they used sounds very wrong.

                                  – undercat
                                  13 mins ago











                                • @undercat EVERY single question??

                                  – SmallChess
                                  13 mins ago






                                • 1





                                  @SmallChess depending on how many questions there are and how specialized, this can happen. It's the company's duty to do phone screens et al before flying someone out.

                                  – Magisch
                                  9 mins ago

















                                There are many reasons why an honest person (and perhaps a good worker, too) would fail every question, from being misrepresented by the recruiter, to being "bombed" by the prospective manager who changed their mind before the interview even started, to a serious last-minute sickness. Accusing someone in serious need because of a hyperbole they used sounds very wrong.

                                – undercat
                                13 mins ago





                                There are many reasons why an honest person (and perhaps a good worker, too) would fail every question, from being misrepresented by the recruiter, to being "bombed" by the prospective manager who changed their mind before the interview even started, to a serious last-minute sickness. Accusing someone in serious need because of a hyperbole they used sounds very wrong.

                                – undercat
                                13 mins ago













                                @undercat EVERY single question??

                                – SmallChess
                                13 mins ago





                                @undercat EVERY single question??

                                – SmallChess
                                13 mins ago




                                1




                                1





                                @SmallChess depending on how many questions there are and how specialized, this can happen. It's the company's duty to do phone screens et al before flying someone out.

                                – Magisch
                                9 mins ago





                                @SmallChess depending on how many questions there are and how specialized, this can happen. It's the company's duty to do phone screens et al before flying someone out.

                                – Magisch
                                9 mins ago










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